A Grandmother's Perspective

My post today is a call out to grandmother’s everywhere that have the privilege of being touched by a grandchild who was born under non typical conditions. I never take it for granted that Hailey is with us today. I marvel at the opportunity to read her a book or take her for a walk. It is always my pleasure when my son and daughter in law have an opportunity to do something on a Saturday night and I get to have a sleepover with Hailey. I cherish these moments because I remember that day in the hospital when I found myself praying to God to just let her live.

Often times when a child is born with a disability it can be a heavy strain on the parents, financially, emotionally, and physically. Extended family can play such an intricate role in the well being of a child/person with a disability or to the family as a whole. A lot of times people want to help out but have no idea how to, so instead they shy away. Whenever possible try and lend a helping hand, you would be amazed how much a small gesture can really help out. It doesn’t have to be monetary assistance, love and support is probably the best thing that you can offer. To know that you are not alone in this is very comforting. Whether you are a grandparent an aunt or an uncle, or a close friend, get involved in the life of someone who has a disability, I guarantee you won’t regret it. As a matter of fact, you may think that you are helping them, but what you will quickly learn is how much they are helping you. Helping you to be a better person, helping you to be a stronger and more caring person. You will no longer feel helpless, you will feel blessed.