Dec 7, 2008

Gifts


There are plenty of gifts wrapped beneath our tree, but here are some of my favorite gifts that could never be put in a box and wrapped....


My savior.




For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son.
--John 3:16


My family.

Lo children are an heritage of the Lord....
Happy is the man that hat his quiver full of them.
--Psalms 127:3-5


I consider my daughter's condition and handicaps a gift to our family because they bring us closer to each other, closer to humility, and closer to Christ.



And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. --2 Corinthians 12:9



Love.

Christmas is for love. It is for joy, for giving and sharing, for laughter, for reuniting with family and friends, for tinsel and brightly decorated packages. But mostly, Christmas is for love. I had not believed this until a small elf-like student with wide-eyed innocent eyes and soft rosy cheeks gave me a wondrous gift one Christmas.

Mark was an 11 year old orphan who lived with his aunt, a bitter middle aged woman greatly annoyed with the burden of caring for her dead sister's son. She never failed to remind young Mark, if it hadn't been for her generosity, he would be a vagrant, homeless waif. Still, with all the scolding and chilliness at home, he was a sweet and gentle child.

I had not noticed Mark particularly until he began staying after class each day (at the risk of arousing his aunt's anger, I later found) to help me straighten up the room. We did this quietly and comfortably, not speaking much, but enjoying the solitude of that hour of the day. When we did talk, Mark spoke mostly of his mother. Though he was quite small when she died, he remembered a kind, gentle, loving woman, who always spent much time with him.

As Christmas drew near however, Mark failed to stay after school each day. I looked forward to his coming, and when the days passed and he continued to scamper hurriedly from the room after class, I stopped him one afternoon and asked why he no longer helped me in the room. I told him how I had missed him, and his large gray eyes lit up eagerly as he replied, "Did you really miss me?"

I explained how he had been my best helper. "I was making you a surprise," he whispered confidentially. "It's for Christmas." With that, he became embarrassed and dashed from the room. He didn't stay after school any more after that.

Finally came the last school day before Christmas. Mark crept slowly into the room late that afternoon with his hands concealing something behind his back. "I have your present," he said timidly when I looked up. "I hope you like it." He held out his hands, and there lying in his small palms was a tiny wooden box.

"Its beautiful, Mark. Is there something in it?" I asked opening the top to look inside. "
"Oh you can't see what's in it," He replied, "and you can't touch it, or taste it or feel it, but mother always said it makes you feel good all the time, warm on cold nights, and safe when you're all alone."

I gazed into the empty box. "What is it Mark," I asked gently, "that will make me feel so good?" "It's love," he whispered softly, "and mother always said it's best when you give it away." And he turned and quietly left the room.

So now I keep a small box crudely made of scraps of wood on the piano in my living room and only smile as inquiring friends raise quizzical eyebrows when I explain to them that there is love in it.

Yes, Christmas is for gaiety, mirth and song, for good and wondrous gifts. But mostly, Christmas is for love.

--Author Unknown


What gifts are you grateful for?



Much love,

7 comments:

Melissa, Multi-Tasking Mama said...

What a beautiful post! My hubby and I are considering adopting a child with special needs. Keep us in your prayers as we seek God's will in that! Thanks for stopping by my blog!

Nana said...

I too am so thankful for my Saviour, we had a beautiful lesson about him in Relief Society this mornig. My family is one of my greatest joys. My husband Mike,now there is a great guy. I wanted to say what a sweet story.

PletcherFamily said...

What a cute baby - I love her hats and hair bows!

We are so thankful for our family and our kids!

Shelly said...

What do you mean you can't wrap Chloe up and put her under the tree? She's already decked out in the cutest bows!

I'm so grateful for my family and our Christmas-Baby miracle that we were afraid would never join our family.

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful story. I am so blessed and have so many things to be thankful for...my family, friends, and the Lord's care and work in my daily life...so much to be thankful for.
-FringeGirl

krissy said...

Very sweet post. I love the pictures, too. We are all so blessed, and to take the time to notice what are blessed with feels so good!

Anonymous said...

tara, i am totally inspired by what you are doing. you are taking a challenging situation and turning it into good for others. you are amazing! Chloe is so lucky to have you for a mom!

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